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How to meet people in Paris when you are new

Last updated 31 October 2026

Making friends in Paris is slow; everyone who moved here says so. Many Parisians have had the same friends since school or university, and the famous reserve is politeness rather than rejection; trust is built over months, in the same places. The upside: the city is full of people who arrived alone, and the international community says hello first. Here is how to meet people in Paris, fastest first, with what each costs and who it suits.

1. A dinner with strangers

The fastest way, because it is arranged for you: a table booked, four to six people who have never met.

  • Timeleft: dinners for 4 to 6 matched by a personality test, Wednesdays and Fridays at 20:00, drinks on Thursdays, a women and LGBTQ+-friendly dinner on Mondays, a singles dinner on Tuesdays. A subscription is needed to book, the meal is paid at the restaurant, and bookings close 13 hours before.
  • Strangrs: a French service; Paris is its only city so far. Dinner for 4 to 6 from around 20:00, drinks, coffee, a walk; first names and the address a few hours before; everyone pays their own bill.
  • Dixner: tables of 6 to 10 guests plus a host they call an ambassador, for an aperitif, dinner or brunch, every week, with menu and drinks included in some offers. Its site does not name Paris; the Paris press describes its dinners here.
  • Socials by Detor (this site): 4 to 6 people at a social table for dinner, drinks, coffee or brunch, or a small group doing one activity. We build the group from a few answers you give once, language included, so English works; a person checks every group; the address comes the day before; until then the others see only your first name and pronouns. A seat has a price per session, shown before you pay, no membership; you pay the venue for your own food and drinks.

2. Language exchanges

This is where English speakers and the French who want to practise on them meet. Polyglot Club Paris meets every Tuesday and Saturday from 20:00 to 02:00 at Le Baratin, 41 boulevard Saint-Marcel in the 13th: free entry, one drink minimum, more than 24,000 members on Meetup; check the venue on Meetup first, it has moved. Franglish runs French-English speed exchanges in bars; a recent listing had it at the Lizard Lounge in the 1st, 19:00 to 21:00. School French is the point here, not a problem.

3. International groups and friendship apps

The first hellos come easiest from people who were new themselves. Meetup has large expat groups such as Internationals in Paris and Glocally Paris; the app is free, some events are paid. r/SocialParis, about 117,000 members, runs a beer night called Jeudi Bière and a monthly Vin du Mois. The Local's list of friendship apps for France adds Frimake (free group outings), Need Sporty, UNBLND, Bumble For Friends and Knockk.

4. Volunteering, in English or in French

Serve the City Paris is English-speaking: food distributions at least three days a week, membership 10 euros a month. Benenova is French and built for people who come alone: collective missions of one to five hours. The Forums des associations in every arrondissement, each September, show off the city's roughly 75,000 associations, free; the next round is September 2027.

5. Run crews and climbing gyms

According to an older article, the Paris Hash House Harriers, a "drinking club with a running problem", set off every other Saturday at 14:00, Lolë runs monthly, mostly on Sundays, and the Paris Running Club takes people by referral; KIIN, Bromance Athletic Club and Circle Run Club post their sessions on their own channels. For climbing, Arkose has five Paris gyms; it lists no social nights, but you rest between climbs and talk.

6. Going out alone: bars, workshops and the apéro

A crowded bar is the hardest room in the city to meet anyone in. Pick a night with a format, a pub quiz, live music, a language exchange, in a part of town that is awake: Oberkampf, République and the Canal Saint-Martin, Bastille, the Marais, or Belleville for gentler prices. A workshop works better, hands busy: Wecandoo for crafts, La Papoterie, a ceramics café in the 9th and 11th, Mazette and Drink & Paint evenings; prices depend on the workshop. And learn the apéro: 18:00 to 20:00 is when Parisians see friends and neighbours. Once you have met two people twice, invite them to yours.

7. What helps, whichever you pick

  • Go back. Being a regular counts for more than a brilliant first evening.
  • Learn enough French to order and to joke. Expat circles run in English; French friendships mostly do not.
  • Pick a small group with something to do over a crowded bar.
  • Say yes to everything in the first few months.

If you want the fastest one first: see this week's tables and meetups in Paris.

Questions people ask

Is it easy to make friends in Paris?

No, and it is not you. Parisians keep their school and university friends, and the reserve is protective rather than hostile. It eases after a few months of showing up at the same places. Pick one or two regular things and keep going.

Do I need to speak French to meet people in Paris?

Not at first. The international Meetup groups, Serve the City, r/SocialParis and a Socials table booked in English all run in English. For French friends, some French matters: it signals that you are staying, which is what Parisians are quietly checking.

Where do I meet English-speaking people in Paris?

At the language exchanges (Polyglot Club on Tuesdays and Saturdays, Franglish), in the international Meetup groups, at Serve the City's food distributions and at the r/SocialParis meetups. A dinner-with-strangers table works too: on Socials the group always shares a language.

What are the best apps to make friends in Paris?

For open outings, The Local's list for France: Meetup, Frimake, Need Sporty, UNBLND, Bumble For Friends and Knockk. For a table rather than a feed: Timeleft (subscription), Strangrs (site in French) and Socials by Detor (pay per seat, no membership). We run Socials, so read that accordingly.

Is it safe to go to a dinner with strangers alone?

These dinners happen in public restaurants, in a group rather than one to one, the safest shape a first meeting can take. On Socials every booking has an SOS button and a Report button, a person reads every report, and phone numbers stay hidden in the group chat.

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